Rewrite Your Story

If you've had a challenging few years and feel ready for a change, perhaps it's time to rewrite your story. Whether you're tired of being the victim or the villain, you're the author of your own story and you get to decide how your story ends. Photo by Nong Vang on Unsplash I once had big dreams with no real intention to make them happen. I suffered abuse and mistreatment, believing these people would eventually see my worth and change their ways. If I demonstrated love, loyalty and commitment, I believed it would one day be enough to earn me their love…

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Rewrite Your Story
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Queens Counsel

Behind every strong woman is a tribe of other strong women who have her back... Queens Counsel is the tribe you've been waiting for! About this Event Celebrating sisterhood, friendship and support, Queens Counsel invites you to become part of a movement on International Women's Day. Brought together by good vibes and a passion for life, we've nurtured a strong and powerful friendship over the last five years. The support we've given each other through divorces, childbirth, job changes, mental health and challenges, has been the very thing that has kept us going so far. We believe every sister…

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What I Did: Changed Career

Over a decade ago, I was a Manager in a betting shop. I was 20 and had worked my way up in an industry that wasn't particularly kind to women (or even young women). I enjoyed the customer service aspect but I longed to work in a women's organisation. I'd grown up in domestic violence and had stayed in a refuge, and I really just wanted to be like the children's worker who used to come in twice a week. I scoured the paper for job opportunities but these types of roles were hard to come by. Then one day…

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What I’m Writing in 2020

I'm still the writer who hasn't quite yet carved out her niche, you know? And with that comes the freedom of experimenting different genres, exploring a range of styles, tones and audiences through my writing. My old blog was full of content for the aspiring writer, tips on planning blogs and ideas for content. I stepped away from writing about writing because at the time I was studying writing too, and all of that combined just sucked the joy out of it all for me. I've thoroughly enjoyed sharing casual personal essays, if you could call it that, and…

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No Dick, Drama or Distractions in 2020

I've thought about it and wrote about it, and I'm certain that the only way to be successful in 2020 is to avoid dick, drama and distractions. Photo by Felicia Buitenwerf on Unsplash Before I wished a Happy New Year to my loved ones, I knew the energy of this new decade would be different. The final months leading up to 2020 had rounded up some harsh lessons. It put a spotlight on the toxic cycles that I couldn't continue with. I accomplished my goals for 2019 but I still experienced unexpected shifts and changes in my life. The disappointment that followed…

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A New Decade, A New Adventure

2019 was important in a way I never expected. Away came the rotten roots and dead ends, creating room for something more special to grow and develop. The process was painful at worst and spontaneous at best, and it's miracle I sit here with no regrets at all.

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Cast Aside the Bullshit

The worry of your authenticity being rejected by people you love, please, cast that aside right now. You'll experience resistance to your boundaries and backlash to your truth, but I urge you to walk your path anyway. Every year I wonder if there's anything left to learn about my journey, and then every year delivers a powerful lesson. 2019 brought me disappointment in the form of people I once thought highly of. It wasn't one person or even one event that led to this, but multiple people and a breakdown in communication. There were people I cared about who…

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Cast Aside the Bullshit
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20 Questions for 2020

If you're walking into 2020 with expectations of success, happiness and creativity, I've got 20 questions for you. Photo by Jamie Street on Unsplash I have a bit of a ritual. On New Year's Eve, I like to plot out the year ahead, set my goals and intentions, and visualise it with a vision board. I've discovered that defining your focus for the year is a good way to stay on track and not get distracted. Getting creative about your plans for a new year means you feel more connected and in alignment with your aspirations. I mean, it is different for…

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2019: A Year in Review

As I type this, I'm two weeks away from the best decade of my life. But before I dive in, I mustn't forget the lessons that this year has brought me. This is 2019: A Year in Review. The beginning of this year felt like a fresh new canvas. I'd written books, worked in my dream role and left to pursue full-time education, which meant I graduated in Sept 2018 as a mature student with a shiny degree. I'd conquered my childhood goals and every single one felt like a miracle itself. But 2019 arrived and I had something…

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